Eph. 5:11 Do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them; Eph. 5:12 for it is disgraceful even to speak of the things which are done by them in secret. Eph. 5:13 But all things become visible when they are exposed by the light, for everything that becomes visible is light. Eph. 5:14 For this reason it says,
“Awake, sleeper,
And arise from the dead,
And Christ will shine on you.”
Don’t participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, Paul says
Here again, his mention of bearing fruit (or lack thereof) alludes to our inheritance
We’ll gain nothing by following after the world’s example
On the other hand, we bear fruit for God when we obey Him
When we live a called-out life, Paul says we expose the deeds of darkness
This is an important principle of Christian witnessing
But it can be misunderstood in practice
The principle is this: when we live a life following Christ, we expose the sin of the world, which is the purpose of the Church on earth
It’s the Principle of Contrast
Differences in form suggest differences in meaning
When two things differ in appearance, they represent differences in meaning or message
For example, the color red in a traffic light contrasts starkly with the color green
The contrast between the colors indicates to us a difference in meaning (i.e., stop vs. go)
And even if you’re color blind, you can still perceive a contrast
Because the location of each colored light is contrasted (i.e., red on top vs. green on bottom) to reinforce there is a difference in meaning
And so it must be for the Church if we’re going to fulfill our mission
Our choices are supposed to contrast with the world’s choices so we may convey a different meaning, a different message
That’s what Paul means when he says we expose the deeds of darkness
Our life of godliness sheds light on the world’s evil
But it goes beyond merely exposing evil
In fact, the Greek word translated expose actually means to refute
So by our life we are refuting the world’s perspective
For example, they say humans evolved from animals
By how we live, we testify we were created in God’s image
The world says fleshly desires are natural and cannot be judged no matter how depraved and selfish
We testify that we are desperately wicked by nature and deserving of judgment, yet by grace we may be rescued
The world holds we are living meaningless and temporary lives of quiet desperation, therefore get all you can while you can
We testify that everyone has an eternal future, therefore consider carefully what comes after death
As obvious as the Principle of Contrast may be, some Christians misunderstand how the Bible expects us to put this principle into practice
Some Christians think it’s about what we say rather than what we do
So they choose to expose the world’s sin using only their mouths, rather than through living a holy lifestyle
They call out others’ sin while failing to deal with it in their own lives
We’ve all seen examples of such misdirected witnessing for Christ
Like Christians who post condemning messages online against homosexuality, yet at the same time they praise movies depicting sex and violence or music laced with obscenities
They protest legalized abortion but they turn a blind eye to unmarried Christian couples living together
They complain about the ungodliness inside public schools while raising kids that use profanity and pornography
So when Paul says we are to “expose” the deeds of darkness, we need to understand he’s talking about our behavior, not our words
We are to preach the Gospel everyday and everywhere, but only use words when necessary
Our mission is to live a called-out life before our neighbors, not call out our neighbors for their sinful lives
To do otherwise is to risk becoming known for what we’re against rather than to be known for Who we serve
That’s why Paul remarks in v.12 that it’s disgraceful to even speak of the things the world does in secret
He means when it comes to dealing with the gross immoralities that characterize the world, believers need less talk and more walk
It’s unwholesome to even discuss the evil that runs rampant around us, because the Bible tells us to separate ourselves from the things of the world
That means moving so far away from it that we’re not even drawn into conversations about such things
So when your colleagues at the water cooler or your friends between classes are entertaining discussion of evil things, step away
Because in the end, apologetics isn’t about bringing powerful arguments in to those moments
It’s about having a convicting testimony
So that through living a called-out life, you expose the evil of the world
That exposure may then lead to an opportunity for you to give your testimony
Some may be convicted by your lifestyle, and so they will ask you to give a defense for the hope in you
At that point, you will have skipped past the need to discuss disgraceful things
You’ll be speaking about the Lord and His love and grace
That’s what Paul means when he says the evil things of the world become visible when they are exposed by light, because light exposes everything
Living a life that puts away sin and obeys the Lord is light in an evil world
As Jesus taught us
Matt. 5:14 “You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden; Matt. 5:15 nor does anyone light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on the lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house. Matt. 5:16 “Let your light shine before men in such a way that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven.
Collectively, the Church is to be a light in the world
The Lord placed us in the world to make the truth visible
When we live differently than the world, we shine a light that exposes their darkness
Notice in v.16 Jesus says our light is our good works, not our good words
Isn’t interesting how often as we plan ways to reach the world for Christ, our thoughts run first to better ways we can communicate better about Christ
We make flyers, billboards, websites, programs, videos, etc.
We begin to think that our mission is to talk about Christ
But the Bible says that’s putting the cart before the horse
Our mission begins with how we live, so that through good deeds, we bring light to darkness and then we follow that with our words
Ironically, if we were to talk to the world about Christ and about our church…
Yet at the same time we mimic the world’s behaviors and habits and speech and values…
Then we would shed no spiritual light despite our words, because we blend into the world and share in their darkness
But turn that around…when we live a called-out life before the world…
Showing kindness and charity to everyone, while restraining our speech
In purity and self-restraint, steering clear of the bad behavior of the world
And even going so far as to excuse ourselves when conversations turn to sordid or vulgar topics
Then Paul says we will be serving the mission of bringing light into darkness even if we should say nothing about Christ
And in the end, your lifestyle will lead to opportunity to testify, because sooner or later someone is going to ask you important questions
Someone in a crisis will come to you for spiritual support because they remember you lived in a peace others lacked
Or someone convicted in their sin by your called-out life will ask how they can rise above their sin too
In those moments, you’ll share your testimony, and it will have power to work far beyond your expectations
Because your life testimony proceeded your testimony of words, and in that way you brought light into that person’s dark world
Paul sums up his arguments in v.14 by quoting what might have been an early Christian hymn or poem
He says to the believer “awake and rise from the dead, so Christ may shine on you”
This is probably a hymn paraphrasing of Isaiah 60:1
It’s an elegant, concise summary of all that Paul has been teaching
Having been saved and made alive in Christ spiritually, now we must awaken from the dead life we lived before faith
This is another way of saying we must take off that old nature and put on the new self, in behavioral terms
Our spiritual nature has already changed – that is, we’re awake – but now the time has come to rise up out of bed and get to work
But many Christians are still lying in bed, so to speak
Like a person who has been awoken by their alarm clock
They reached over to silence the alarm, but they think to themselves, “Boy this bed sure feels comfortable.”
It would be so easy to just stay in that bed, to fall back to sleep
But they know they must arise, because they have to get to work or school on time
Getting out of bed requires a degree of effort and commitment and sacrifice
It doesn’t feel good
Nevertheless, we will ourselves to do what’s right even though it runs against the desires of our flesh
We do so because we want the blessings that come from our paycheck or from the degree we’re pursuing
We know if we stay in bed, the good feeling passes quickly
And before long, we’ll regret putting something far greater at risk
That’s what the hymn means when it says “Christ will shine on you”
It’s a reference to the blessing that Christ will bring to those who make the effort to leave their dead life behind
If we rise to follow Christ we will know His pleasure which is reflected in our reward
That’s our motivation to turn off the snooze and crawl out of that comfortable bed
It’s a decision to forgo temporary pleasure to gain eternal blessings
As Paul concludes
Eph. 5:15 Therefore be careful how you walk, not as unwise men but as wise, Eph. 5:16 making the most of your time, because the days are evil. Eph. 5:17 So then do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is.
Therefore, let’s be careful how we live our Christian life, our walk with Christ
Don’t be unwise, which is to say don’t make foolish tradeoffs
Electing to stay in bed an extra hour or two at the risk of being fired or failing a class is an obviously unwise choice
Similarly, electing to live in immorality, impurity, greed, vulgarity or in any way that pleases the flesh and displeases the Lord is also unwise
It’s trading something eternal and weighty for something temporary and meaningless
Instead, Paul tells us to make the most of your time
Your time refers to the number of days each of us have been appointed to live on earth
People don’t usually like to talk much about mortality
But everyone knows it…no one lives forever
We have a limited time to serve Christ, to prove ourselves faithful servants
As I reflect on my own situation, I can sense the time slipping away
My walk began when I came to Christ in my late twenties…so let’s round up to age 30
Let’s also assume I’ll be blessed to live until age 80
That’s gives me 50 years of opportunity
If that sounds like a lot of time, then you must be under the age of 25, because to anyone past middle age, it doesn’t sound like much
And it isn’t…that’s only 18,250 days
Then consider I’ve already reached the age of 51, so that means I only have a little over 10,000 days left give or take
That’s assuming I live to 80…it might be far less
And no matter what age we are now, who’s to say how many years we have remaining?
So Paul says count each day and maximize its potential
Don’t worry about the days already past, since what can we do about those anyway?
Let’s think only about what’s left and ask yourself how are you going to use each of those days to bring light to the world?
What behaviors still stand in the way?
Paul asks us to make the most of those days…why let even one be wasted?
Paul says we should do this because the days are evil
He means if we don’t make a plan and commitment to use the days well, the evil of the world around us and of our flesh will probably get the better of us
We may go to bed with the best of intentions to get up early and make it to work on time
But if all we have is good intentions, then “hope” is not a plan
So when the moment of decision comes, the evil in our flesh will likely pull us off our goal
One my brothers was notorious for sleeping soundly
His alarm clock would sound but he would silence it without even waking up
He was constantly late for school or work
He was sleeping at my house the night my wife went into labor with our first child
Despite the commotion, he never woke up
We even tried to wake him as we were leaving the house for the hospital, but no matter how hard I shook him, he wouldn’t wake up
So eventually he had to make a plan to be sure he woke up in the morning
He bought the loudest alarm he could find and placed it on the other side of his bedroom
So when the alarm sounded, he was forced to arise and get out of bed to silence it
That’s Paul’s charge to us today
We must make plans in our life that will guard us from ourselves and lead us to make the most of each day that remains
And then we can live out the testimony we’ve been given
For the purpose of glorifying our Father in Heaven
Leading to the potential for greater blessing in the Kingdom to come
It’s time to return to Paul’s instructions to the church concerning walking in love
Last week we gained a reprieve from Paul’s exhortations for Christian living
Instead, we heard Paul’s arguments for why we should pursue this walk
In short, Paul argued our lives are to be missionally-minded
And he gave several reasons for making missional living our goal
Paul summed up his argument in v.14 quoting a hymn of his day that paraphrased Isaiah 60:1
We are to arise from our slumber
To wake up from living like the world
So that as we walk out our new life before the world, we may serve Christ as He intended
Displaying light, exposing the world’s evil and proving what pleases the Lord
As we do these things, we will see Christ shine on us
We will be blessed now and in the kingdom
As we understand this truth, we find greater motivation to tackle our sin, crucify our flesh and walk in the Spirit
You remember he started the chapter discussing immorality, vulgarity and other ways our behaviors can detract from our witness to the world
In Ephesus these behaviors were likely common among the Greek pagans who were coming into the Church
So Paul called upon the church to put aside their old self and put on a new self, one consistent with their new nature
But as we noted, these behaviors are still common in the unsaved culture around us
So we still have equal reason to set them aside today
We need to look different if we’re going to convince the world we possess a different message
That’s our mission, and it requires focus
Then Paul gave us added urgency saying we must make the most of the time God gives us for accomplishing this mission
Because our lives are short, at least in view of eternity
We each get very little time to serve Christ before we receive our report card
And the days in which we live are evil, Paul says
So we have to prepare and plan to do the right thing if we hope to succeed more often than not
So let’s go back to Paul and pick up where he left off, naming sins that easily entangle believers and distract us from our mission
Eph. 5:17 So then do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is. Eph. 5:18 And do not get drunk with wine, for that is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit,
Notice Paul begins with the word “so”
He’s drawing the proper conclusion for us
And there truly is just one sensible conclusion we can make given what we studied last week
We’re here to serve a purpose, a mission to bring light into a dark world, to expose the world’s evil by proving what pleases God
Our mission requires we stand apart from the world, that we look different and live differently
And we do this knowing our time is short and the days are evil
Therefore, Paul says we cannot afford to be foolish
The label “fool” is a strong word in scripture
It means to act without reason, to act without sense
And given the importance of our mission and the limited time we have, we must act sensibly, not foolishly
A lot of Christians do, in fact, live foolishly though
They live without proper reasoning
They are not thinking about what life is truly about and what they’re here to do for Christ
Some Christians float through life, from moment to moment, pursuing the world while keeping Jesus in a corner reserved for Sundays, Easter and Christmas
What’s missing for these believers?
Paul says in the second half of v.17 that the issue is they aren’t seeking to understand what the will of God is
In this context, the will of God refers to God’s desires for their life
His will for how they live, what they are on earth to do in service to Christ
They aren’t asking the question, “What does the Lord want for my life?”
And they aren’t consumed in finding the answer
And therefore they can’t walk according to His plan and fulfill His purposes in their life
Perhaps more importantly, they don’t concern themselves with God’s will for His followers in general
They aren’t reading His word to learn His expectations for a called-out life
They aren’t aware a judgment is coming, they aren’t thinking about the day they stand before Christ
And they aren’t concerned with how their choices and decisions now will impact that day to come
Imagine a young man who was drafted into the army but he never bothered to read his draft notice when it came in the mail
The young man had been called into service, yet he kept on living for himself oblivious to his new calling
He was oblivious because he hadn’t taken time to read what he knew was true, and certainly we would describe such a man as foolish
One day a policeman knocks on his door, and much to his surprise he’s taken away
I think that’s Paul’s concern for the church in Ephesus
He didn’t want the church to live ignorantly unaware of the mission God was calling them to serve
Or even worse, disregarding what they already knew God expected
Having been distracted or deceived into following the world instead of Christ
Paul then calls out one particular form of distraction and disobedience, one that forms the first half of a comparison at the heart of today’s teaching
Paul says do not become drunk with wine
There is no mystery in the Greek words Paul is using here
To be drunk means simply to be inebriated, to lose control of our faculties by consuming too much alcohol
And the word wine refers to the fermented drink common to Paul’s day just as it is today
Some have tried to argue that wine in the Bible isn’t really wine
And if you are interested in an in-depth explanation of how we know the word wine in the Bible refers to an alcoholic beverage, read our article here: May a Christian drink alcohol?
But the Bible teaches believers have liberty to consume alcohol responsibly so long as they do so without becoming drunk
We are expected to recognize where the line is between enjoying wine in the way God intended
And crossing that line into drunkenness which is abuse and it is sin
Substance abuse is a particularly dangerous form of sin
It robs us of our senses and erects barriers between us and the Spirit’s leading
If substance abuse becomes a fixture in our lives, it will likely give rise to other sinful practices
In the end, the sin of drunkenness is the abandonment of self-control
Self-control is always the goal for the Christian
It is the goal for all areas of our walk
Nothing of this world should control us
Only the Spirit of God should have our obedience
Therefore, whether we abuse wine or prescription drugs or illegal drugs or food or something else, we are sinning
So why did Paul focus on wine?
First, wine was the drug of choice in his day
It was easily made, reasonably priced and commonly available
There were few other ways to sin in the same, socially-accepted way
Today, we have a smorgasbord of choices for stimulating our body in an attempt to escape
So we should understand this teaching broadly as a condemnation of any kind of inebriation regardless of the source
It is always a lack of self-control and a giving over of our bodies to something other than the Holy Spirit
Paul says when we demonstrate a lack of self-control and allow ourselves to become drunk, we are experiencing dissipation
The Greek word translated dissipation can have three meanings, and all three are applicable here
First, dissipation means self-indulgence or excessiveness
Acting in an excessive way and for selfish reasons
Certainly, the decision to be drunk can be understood to be an excessive act born out of selfishness
This definition reminds us that drunkenness is ultimately a choice, a decision
Christians who get drunk are making a choice, they are not victims of an outside force
There may be complex life circumstances that lead us to make our mistakes
But in the end, becoming drunk involves a decision or series of decisions made in our flesh and at the expense of others
Secondly, the word dissipation means a squandering of resources
And certainly becoming drunk involves squandering resources
But we’re not referring to the money spent on drink or drugs
Paul is primarily referring to the squandering of time and opportunity
Remember, last week Paul said we must make the most of our time, this brief period we will live on earth to serve Christ
In my life I counted maybe 10,000 days remaining in my life
Assuming that’s accurate, then every day I might choose to spend drunk would be one less day I’m serving Christ and the mission
And I don’t have enough days that can I afford to waste even one
I want to make the most of every day knowing I will face judgment one day
Paul also said the days are evil, so we must be on our guard
We must make plans and adopt strategies to avoid being sidelined in our mission whether by the schemes of the enemy or our own temptations
And drinking excessively is one of the surest ways to get sidelined in the pursuit of Christ and His will in your life
So if I’m prone to drunkenness, I must take meaningful steps to avoid that temptation because the days are short and evil
In fact, every addictive drug creates a craving in the flesh
So as we give ourselves over to it, we make future episodes of drunkenness all the more likely
We’re strengthening our flesh at the expense of our spirit
So a choice to become drunk today means dissipation today and makes it more likely the Christian will lose more days in the future
The only hope is to break the pattern so we can establish a new pattern
We must starve the flesh of its drug so that its attraction will weaken over time
Meanwhile, we spend time strengthening our spirit through the pursuit of Christ in the discipline of our faith
To do otherwise is to waste resources, and the most precious resource we have is our time to serve the Lord
And finally, the word for dissipation in Greek can also be translated “unsavedness”
Because the entire existence of an unbeliever can be described as dissipation
An unbeliever lives a lifetime on earth opposing God and wasting their time
Only then to spend eternity in the Lake of Fire
Their life is one big self-indulgent, excessive affair that ends in nothing…and they will be forgotten in eternity
Then in v.18 Paul applies this same word to believers who get drunk because drunkenness makes the believer indistinguishable from unbelievers
Physically, a drunk believer looks exactly like the world in many ways
While we are drunk we sideline our witness and our pursuit of the mission
Because inebriation robs us of our sensibilities
We can’t make choices that reflect Christ or show love
We are simply a walking display of debauchery
So to any observer, we simply look like the world, and lacking contrast we cannot serve the mission
And spiritually, the drunk believer is also like the world, at least in a sense
Clearly believers share nothing in common spiritually with unbelievers
But in practical terms, the drunk believer is no more spiritually-directed than the sober unbeliever
Neither an unbeliever nor a drunk believer is under control of the Spirit
While we’re under the influence of any drug, our flesh takes change and hands control over to the enemy
If you’ve ever been drunk, do you remember saying or doing things you would never normally say or do?
That’s proof to you that you are not acting under the control of the Spirit but of the flesh and the enemy
The more we drug ourselves, the more our flesh gains control while our spirit becomes imprisoned
All three meanings of the word dissipation point us to the same conclusion:
We’re engaged in a battle between flesh and spirit so we can’t afford to be foolish
The wise thing to do is to seek to be filled by the Spirit rather than wine, Paul says in the second half of v.18
It means to come under control of the Spirit, to be filled in the same way as someone may be filled with rage or joy
The Greek verb filled is in the passive tense, meaning this is something done to us not by us
So we are called to set aside anything that conflicts with the Spirit so that He is free to lead us
We are to be consumed by the will and desires of the Spirit
We are to be under His control in the sense that we yield to the Spirit’s will and desires by denying our flesh its desires
That’s how the Lord has constructed the process of our sanctification
We must set aside our flesh to give the Spirit opportunity to take over
We must say no to self before we can say yes to the Spirit
When we do that, the Spirit will guide us for as long as we seek the will of God
Some believers see Paul’s contrast in v.18 between being drunk in the flesh vs. being filled by the Spirit and come to a wrong conclusion
They assume a filling of the Spirit is like a filling of wine, something we must take in that isn’t with us normally
As if we must take in a secondary experience of the Spirit beyond what we already received at the point we were saved
Secondly, they imagine that being filled with the Spirit must result in a similar physical response to being drunk with wine
A believer filled with the Spirit should exhibit strange or unconscious behaviors
Out of this thinking comes charismatic errors of one kind or another including the teaching that a person isn’t truly saved without such manifestations
And that even true believers must seek after a subsequent “filling” of the Spirit following salvation
Reading v.18 in its context makes clear the charismatic teachings are born out of a wooden interpretation of the text, one that misses Paul’s point entirely
We can see Paul is contrasting slavery to a physical addiction with submitting to the Spirit
And these things work in opposite ways, not in similar ways
One is a barrier to serving Christ while another is a means to serving Him
One causes us to lose control over our flesh, while the other puts our flesh in subjection
One is giving in to self while the other is yielding to the Spirit
In fact, Paul goes on to clarify what walking in the Spirit looks like in the life of a believer
Eph. 5:19 speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody with your heart to the Lord; Eph. 5:20 always giving thanks for all things in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ to God, even the Father;
In this list we find four behaviors that typify a believer walking in the Spirit
Each of these believers has a parallel to the earlier contrast with drunkenness
In contrast to the counterfeit joy that comes from feeding the flesh with wine or any such thing, Paul’s examples illustrate true joy among believers walking in the Spirit
These things enhance fulfilling the mission, in contrast to the dissipation of feeding the flesh
First, Paul says a believer walking in the Spirit with a mind set on the mission speaks to other believers in psalms, hymns and spiritual songs
He’s talking about public expressions of joy
A psalm is a poem of praise taken from the Old Testament book of the same name
A hymn is a song of praise sung to the glory of God
And spiritual songs are simply any other joyful expression of spiritual truth (we might include Christian pop music here)
When you see someone singing in public, they appear joyful and exuberant
Ironically, you might wonder if they are drunk
And that’s Paul’s point of comparison, of course
If you want to get a little silly in public, then do it in the Spirit rather than the flesh
Rather than getting drunk, standing on tables and singing your school fight song, sing songs of praise to the Lord by the Spirit
That’s an expression of joy that serves the purpose of the mission
Secondly, a believer in the Spirit directs their joy to the Lord in private praise
Paul says we are to sing and make music to the Lord in our hearts
This is inward praise and joy before the Lord
So find joy in knowing what you have eternally in Christ and carry that joy in your heart praising Him continually
This is in contrast to those who run from God into their addiction
We can’t show God joy in our heart if we’re so drugged we can’t think straight much less praise Him sensibly
Furthermore, the desire to be drunk is inherently an act of running from God, not toward Him
Of denying Him rather than praising Him
Like the Prodigal Son, we’re saying we want to run away to enjoy our inheritance now rather than remaining patient under the Father’s authority
Thirdly, Paul says give thanks for all things in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ to God
Those who abuse wine or other drugs are usually seeking an escape
At first, we may turn to a drug to numb ourselves from pain or disappointment in our life
Eventually we come to rely on the drug, and then the addiction takes on a life of its own
Seeking to escape from disappointments and trials in life is the opposite of giving thanks to the Lord for all things, including for trials
The Bible teaches we are to thank the Lord for the trials we face knowing they are opportunities for spiritual reward
James 1:2 Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, James 1:3 knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. James 1:4 And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.
James says trials are cause for joy because they present opportunity for eternal reward
But of course that assumes we endure them properly
We must face them soberly, prayerfully, seeking counsel and support from our brothers and sisters
Asking what good thing is the Lord trying to accomplish through this trial and how should I respond to it in godliness to ensure a reward?
If we bring that mature perspective to our disappointments, we can learn to count or consider our trials as a source of joy
Therefore, we thank the Lord for everything, both the things that please us and the things that try us
But if we escape into a bottle or a needle, we won’t be thanking the Lord for a trial
We’ll be too busy trying to forget the trial is even happening